1. CHOOSE TO BE RESPECTED OR CHERISHED

There can only be one, respected, masculine energy partner who is the leader, and one, cherished, feminine energy partner, who is the follower, with veto rights. Remember, when a man's thinking is respected, he feels cherished. When a woman's feelings are cherished, she feels respected.

2. PAY ATTENTION TO HER FEELINGS

You should want to know what her feelings are. Dont sweep them under your logical brain. She doesn't have to be logical, rational or happy all the time. Cherish her feelings, no matter what they are.

3. DON'T FORGET THE COURTSHIP

Women need to be courted and feel desirable until they die. Stroke her each day. Spend time each day on each of her senses. On Sunday, taste her; on Monday, smell her; on Tuesday, hear her; on Wednesday, see her; on Thursday, touch her, then repeat what she likes the best..

While men are horny for sex intercourse, women are horny for sensuous affection. When masculine energy men give their feminine energy women what they need, they will find that their sensuous women give back great sex.

4. LEARN HOW TO COMMUNICATE YOUR WANTS.

A narcissistic man believes that if a woman loves him, she can guess what he wants. He believes that if he has to ask for what he wants, it's not worth the effort. Masculine men must have the courage to speak up. Dont act passive aggressive, and hope she can read your mind.

5. MAKE LOVE TO HER SEXUALLY, AT LEAST ONCE A WEEK

Women physically bond to men who are sexual with them. Even if you are unable to get an erection or penetrate her for some physical or psychological reason, make love to her as best you can. Get help if you are dysfunctional.

6. SET ASIDE FIFTEEN MINUTES A DAY TO TALK.

Every day, each of you should ask your partner what he or she thinks and feels about things that matter to each of you. Find out how to help the other to feel better and to achieve his or her goals and then do it

7. RENEGOTIATE TERMS AT LEAST ONCE A YEAR OR WHENEVER THERE IS A CHANGE IN YOUR LIFESTYLE.

Negotiate time: I, We, Us; space and money; mine, yours, ours; and play; non-sexual and sexual.

8. KEEP ALL AGREEMENTS

The only way you know you love yourself and others, is by the agreements you are willing to make and keep. Respect and cherish each other daily.

9. CREATE A ROMANTIC MEMORY BANK

As you age, your great memories will make your marriage feel good. You and your wife may not always have intercourse but you can have sex talk, recounting the great times you once had, which will make your marriage feel good, even when you don't.

10. BE FAITHFUL AND LOYAL TO YOUR MATE

The grass may be greener across the road but it often turns out to be astroturf. Work diligently to be the man who deserves respect. Personal integrity creates a virtuous, satisfying life and discipline allows spontaneity and peace of mind.

copywrite - Sandra Harmon - 2006

Sandra Harmon

SANDRA HARMON

Sandra Harmon has become one of the country's most popular Love, Dating, Sex and Relationship Coach since the phenomenal success of her two, best selling, self help books, the powerful and ground breaking "Getting To I Do" and it’s sequel, "Staying Married and Loving It".

Sandra's one-on-one love, sex, dating and relationship coaching is geared strictly toward her clients personal needs and goals. Known as "The Love Coach To The Stars", her clients, many of whom are Hollywood superstars and power brokers, all swear by her simple but successful methods for helping them find and keep lasting love.

A popular public speaker on relationship issues and celebrity marriages, Sandra is a frequent guest on such television shows as "Montel" and "Maury" and has been featured on hundreds of radio shows, newspapers and magazines.

Sandra has also had an extraordinary career as a journalist, TV writer and film maker. She won an Emmy Award for writing the late-night talk show, "The Dick Cavett Show" for ABC-TV. She wrote and produced Real Life Stories, on Lifetime Television, and was the head writer of "The New Bill Cosby Show", an ABC-TV comedy variety series.

Sandra's popular first novel, the critically acclaimed, "A Girl Like Me", which was based on her on life, was published by Dutton Books. She also wrote and produced the television movie, "Fast Friends" for NBC, which was based on her own experiences as a writer on "The Dick Cavett Show". She also produced "Promises to Keep" a CBS movie starring Claire Bloom and Robert Mitchum.,

Sandra is also the co-author of "Elvis and Me" - (the story of Elvis Presley and Priscilla Presley - written with Priscilla Presley ) - which sold nearly one million copies in hard cover and three million in paperback and was, according to The Wall Street Journal, the tenth largest seller of the l980's, occupying the #l spot on the New York Times Best seller list for more than fifty weeks in both hard and soft cover.